INSTRUCTIONS FOR LIFE..

Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
Memorize your favorite poem.
Don't believe all you hear, or spend all you have, or loaf all you want.
When you say, "I love you," mean it.
When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
Believe in love at first sight.
Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
Love deeply and passionately. You may get hurt, but it's the only way to live life completely.
In disagreements, fight fairly. No name-calling.
Don't judge people by their relatives, or by the life they were born into.
Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.
When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
Call a relative. Let them know you care.
When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
Follow the three R's:
Respect for self,
Respect for others, and
Responsibility for all your actions.
Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
Marry a person you love to talk to. As you get older, his/her conversational skills will be even more important.
Spend some time alone.
Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
Read more books. Television is no substitute.
Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
Trust in your beliefs but lock your car.
A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
Do all you can to create a tranquil, harmonious home.
In disagreements with loved ones deal only with the current situation.
Don't bring up the past.
Don't just listen to what someone is saying. Listen to why they are saying it.
Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
Be gentle with the earth.
Pray or meditate. There's immeasurable power in it.
Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
Mind your own business.
Don't trust anyone who doesn't close his/her eyes when you kiss.
Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. It is wealth's greatest satisfaction.
Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
Live with the knowledge that your character is your destiny.
Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

View Point..

If you always have a shallow perspective and pay attention only to trivial things, you are sure to get bogged down in all kinds of petty worries and concerns, and not be able to move forward. Even relatively minor hurdles or problems will seem insurmountable. But if you look at life from a broad viewpoint, you naturally spot the way to solve any problem you may confront. This is true when we consider our own personal problems as well as those of society and even the future of the entire world.

L.I.F.E..?

Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.

..Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is a beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is life, fight for it..

H.O.P.E

When we limit ourselves with low expectations, the growth of the tree of happiness ceases. The power of growth, of improvement, the power to overcome all stagnation and break through every obstacle and transform a barren wasteland into a verdant field--that unstoppable power of hope resides right within your own heart. It wells up from the rich earth of your innermost being when you face the future without doubt or fear: "I can do more. I can grow. I can become a bigger and better human being." Life is a never-ending struggle to grow.

~Seperti Yang Kau Ingini..

Shallom.. i wanna share with you all this lovely lyric. It's one of my fav worship song. Everytime i've listen this song, it's remain me the years before. It's very touching song. You can listen this on my playlist.. Remember, God die for us. Make your life more worth for living..God Bless everyone..

Bukan dengan barang fana

Kau membayar dosaku

Dengan darah yang mahal

Tiada noda dan cela

Bukan dengan emas perak

Kau menebus diriku

Oleh segenap kasih

Dan pengorbananMu

Kutelah mati dan tinggalkan

Cara hidupku yang lama

Semuanya sia-sia dan tak berarti lagi

Hidup ini kuletakkan

Pada mezbahMu ya Tuhan

Jadilah padaku seperti yang Kau ingini

~No Matter..

No matter how strong the hostility another person may feel toward you, if you approach them in an attitude of sincerity and truth, they will invariably abandon their ill will and respond with friendliness. A sense of sincerity is the one thing that somehow, in a very subtle way, gets across to others. Human beings perhaps possess some deep inner power that allows them to sense sincerity instinctively. Whatever the case, the degree to which they can do so is almost frightening.

Something Wrong..?

Last night, i really couldn't sleep. The time is pass midnight already and still.. i can't sleep. Was something wrong?..but Im sure there's nothing wrong happen. This sleeping problems coming up again (*sigh*).. Then I remember one of my friend said, ask God to help you. I, then keep thinking God in my mind.. Well its work!! I did finally fall a sleep..

For everything, God will always be with us. Im thank full..(^_^)

Who Is There?..

Someone knocked at the door of the Beloved and a voice from within inquired: "Who is there?" He answered, "It is I." And the voice said, "This house will not hold me and thee." So the door remained closed.

Then the lover sped away into the wilderness and fasted and prayed. After a year he returned and knocked again at the door and the voice again demanded: "Who is there?" And the lover said, "It is thou."

The door was opened.

~L.O.V.E and T.I.M.E~

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,

Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

When Tomorrow Starts Without Me..

When tomorrow starts without me, And I'm not there to see, If the sun should rise and find your eyes.. All filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry The way you did today, While thinking of the many things, We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name, And took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready, In heaven far above, And that I'd have to leave behind All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do, It almost seemed impossible That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays, The good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared, And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday, Just even for a while, I'd say good-bye and kiss you And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized, That this could never be, For emptiness and memories, Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, From His great golden throne,

He said, "This is eternity, And all I've promised you. Today your life on earth is past, But here life starts anew.

I promise no tomorrow, But today will always last, And since each day's the same way There's no longing for the past.

You have been so faithful, So trusting and so true. Though there were times you did some things You knew you shouldn't do.

But you have been forgiven And now at last you're free. So won't you come and take my hand And share my life with me?"

So when tomorrow starts without me, Don't think we're far apart, For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart.

~..Promises..~

The sunset is the promise of the sunrise. The darkness is the promise of the dawn. The winter is the promise of the springtime. The hilltop of the road that rambles on. The longing is the promise of fulfillment. The dream the promise of its coming true. The planting is the promise of the harvest, the old the promise of the certain new. The reaching is the promise of the grasping. The need is promise of its own supply. The plodding is the promise of arrival, and patience finds its answer by and by. Promises made in words may break and fail us. Promises written down may not endure. But promises recorded in the silence that dwells in life's reality are sure..

Its Almost..

Morning..

today is my 3dr tutorial. Wake up at 5.30am (arggg...). As usually im doing the morning routine. Ironing my T-shirt.. do the hair and a lil bit make up (simple one..). Praying before leave (god may my journey be safe..amennn). Then there i was, waiting for the bus again. I keep sees the time.. (my im gonna be late this time also..).

Sampai Terminal Bas Wawasan, again i have to take another bus to Kepayan (*sigh*). Time..time..my time.. i am late.. 30 minute late. Goshhh.. I move quickly.. but wait, Tengok kiri dan kanan sebelum melimpas (i keep it always..). Safe pass.. then continue walking.. My routine, sampai ja, i have to make sure that my class is on the right place and check all the memo on the notice board.

Up to class.. (8.00am-10.00am)..

Fin my class.. i went down stair, checking again if theres any new news. Bh teda..Pulang la..!
crossing again the same highway.. (thank you God..im safe to cross..)

Tunggu bas lagi. This time the driver is an old woman..(seriously..). In the bus, i start feeling something strange. This driver sekejap-kejap laju, sekejap-kejap slow.. and what im afraid so is her bus is "makan jalan.." ayoo.. he almost langgar other car and the side of the road.. In my mind, God please help me. Please avoid me from any accident..Amennn!!! and yes the bus is almost accident..( bad day..).

Finaly, arive safe juga di terminal bas. Without wasting my time I continue to take the bus back home.. Fewhhh..lega hati.

Now here i am, updating my blog..

Bah Im going home sudah ni..later again with new update.. See ya..!!

Lost Kitten..

Hi again..

this morning i was surprised with a lost kitten who has suddenly enter into my house from the back door. That kitten just passing me by and suddenly stop near the front door. Seriously..? Lil kitten asking me to open the front door?..hahha funny. Ok then..here we go (opening the door for the kitten).. Then the lil kitten just went out without looking back.. (no thankyou..?).

When i thought it back, there's so many odd thing happening this day..Im wondering why..

What Was Happen Today..

Today i went to the library to find some resourc to my tasks. 1st I register to using the library computer. Konon2 mau cari bahan dari internet.. search punya search termenyimpang pula..heheh just updating my blog and reply some email. After 2 hour using, i decide to go home (got to catch my Korean drama..). Waiting for the City Bus two time..1st bus, huuh so many people..i decide not to take that. Still waiting for the another bus..Againnnn full of people. the 3rd time i decide to naik aja. biar la berdir pun berdiri la (mcm nda biasa kn..)..nanti ada orang juga turun di Cp. unfortunately, i have to stand until arrive di Wawasan Plaza..(*sigh*).. And again i have to find the bus to go home..(punya banyak mau connect2 bas ni..)

Dapat bas, waiting again until the bus full of passenger. It almost 2pm and the bus finally full. Punya la haus..(i need waterrrr...) instead to balik terus rumah, sia singgah lagi di Central Plaza. Have to buy something (those i forgot to buy at Wawasan Plaza..). Menyimpang lagi pi CC. update my blog..(againnn..)

Now im in the Cc updating my blog sambil sms sama kawan..hahha sampai sia terlupa samada sdh terbalas atau nda.. who care la kn..nanti sia balas juga (sbb dia akan msg juga tu..)

Bh..until some other time, ill make some update later. Banyak cerita tapi nda larat mau taip dlm 1 hari..nanti la sia tulis dulu dalam kertas then i'll post in in my blog..

take care..

Assignment..

Gee.. my assignment belum siap lagi. Last night my assistant call bagi tau yang soalan temubual sdh siap dijawab. Malangnya dia cakap, semua jawapan lebih kurang sama saja. So he decide not to send it to me. He just bagi tau tu jawapan and i wrote it down on a piece of paper. Bh sana la sia jd bingung dengan jawapan yang dia bagi. Sia betul2 kecewa dengan jawapan itu. Maka2 "seonsaeng" lagi tu yang menjawab.. Berpuluh tahun sdh pengalaman tapi menjawab perkara yang dorg sudah sedia belajar pun mcm teda2.. (*sigh*).. Bukan mau merendah-rendahkan la, it just my assumption to them is high...dan dorang lebih tau itu perkara. only a simple question bh..mau minta pendapat saja.. tapi jawapan yang diberikan betul2 kurang memuaskan dan sia nda percaya seorang "seonsaeng" tidak boleh menjawab soalan yang sesimple begitu. Apapun terima kasih juga la dengan kerjasama yang diberikan.. (nanti lain kali sia bagi lagi..)

So..i continue to do my tasks yang perlu dihantar bulan depan. Masa pun semakin singkat ni.. Bh nanti lagi sia update my blog..See ya..!

Mongomot..

Time flew so fast.. its time to reap the paddy. Mum call me to come back to help them on the paddy field. Im thinking, my tasks haven't yet done. And it need to submit it next month. Ayoo ~ bahan pun belum cukup. Macam mana mau kasi siap. Kesian pula kalau nda balik pi tolong2.. On sunday morning, i wake up early to 'balik kampung'. Singgah dulu beli barang sikit.. went to bus station--> naik bas balik KB. sampai rumah almost 1pm~penat and panas lagi.. so rest kejap. Turun ke sawah jm 4 sdh..panas bh masih.. anway im glad i help my mum on the paddy field biarpun hanya seminggu.

p/s: siap dulu tasks sia, sia balik lagi ok mum (^_^)..

Btw.. here's some pic's taken on teh paddy field..

~mum and my bro~

~our bekal (water and snack)~

~my mum~

~the view of my paddy field~

~My Valentine 2010~

He almost forgot this day.. One sunday evening, he call me and say "HAPPY VALENTINE MY DEAR, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.." (^_^)..

Yes..the time is almost there.. We are goin to be 1 soon enough..(^_^)

Thankyou again for keep loving me.. GB us..

CNY 2010 And Exam Result

CNY..the year of tiger~ baru balik dari kampung. I habe to go back early bcoz my tasks belum siap and i need lots of resources. Im hoping that orang2 yang sia bagi soalan tu dapatlah menjawabnya dengan baik..(unfortunately..). Samapai di rumah, yup..they still sleep..so i walk slowly so they don't wake up..

This year, im glad im still go on with my routine life.. and every chinese new year, of cos my bro in lo bagi 'AngPow"..yeszzzaa.. dapat lagi tahun ni. Thanks bro.. (^_^)

Exam result also coming up.. Kawan2 semua dh tau result dorang. Me?..still tertanya-tanya. Asking my sister mau pinjam tu broadband kejap (sia mau cek result exam).. Im praying the result is good.. Finally OMG..than you god for your blessing and my hard work.. I manage to get an A in my result for last year semester. Im really thankfull..

well.. my friends if u really taking seriously what your doing, im sure you get the good result for your hard work..

Good & Bad..~Keep smiling~

In life, it seems that we can always reflect and appreciate the meaning or logic behind certain events...events that are absolutely vital for one's inner growth whether they are good or bad experiences...events that make perfect sense. So what does this mean? It means that everything that will happen in life will have a purpose, despite our difficulty in appreciating the significance of the moment within the moment, because there is Meaning behind and within life. So this very day and this very moment we are in the midst of something meaningful and of incomprehensible importance. Live wisely and live lovingly because where you are tomorrow is the culmination of what you do today. Do things right today and reflect on life tomorrow with a smile.

Always Remember..

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone and it takes an hour to like someone and a day to love some one but it takes lifetime to forget some one.

You meet some people in your life who change you for the better, REMEMBER them kindly. And as for FRIENDS just be LOYAL -nothing more nothing less.

Its true that we don't know what we've got until we loose it but it is also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one, which opens to us.

There are things u love to hear but you would NEVER hear it from the person from whom you would like to hear it but don't be DEAF to hear it from the person who says it with HIS HEART

Never say GOODBYE when u still want to TRY, Never give up when u still fell u can take it, never say you don't LOVE that person anymore when you can't let go

Hi Seoul..

Banyak sdh pula kedai Korea sini KK ni.. teringin pula mau cuba, test, try dorg punya makanan.. selalu tengok di Tv ja.. One Sunday morning (^_^) my sister, my bro in lo and I have finally tasted the Korean food (yeahhh..). Mula-mual tu segan juga bh kenen kami mau masuk tu kadai, but Korea punya pasal..kc berani ja la.. (^_^). Im so excited to see how its look like.. and here's some of the pic's.. The taste was really good.. menu dia ngam untuk orang yang mau berdiet.. so my fren, pi la cuba ni..

Soybean Paste Stew..

Seafood Soft Tofu Stew..

Bibimbap..

..~nanti mau cuba lagi menu sana WS pula.. Really excited juga ni..

Love and February..

Utopia is the ideal life. You love everything about your life. You love where you are. You love whom you are with. You love what you do. Everything is perfect. You could say Utopia is loving your life completely. Utopia is an ideal. Utopia does not exist, except as an ideal to dream about and to try to achieve. But an attitude of love can open the door to you perceiving life in a utopian way.

Your perception goes a long way in determining what your life is like. Is the glass half empty or is the glass half full. Only you have the answer for you. Is life hard and full of scarcity or is life wonderful and full of abundance?

You decide, for yourself, everyday, by how you perceive the events of your life. Let's say you're having a rough time at work. Everything is going against you. Your partner seems to want to fight you in everything you do.

You can look at this scenario anyway you want. You can say, "I can't take this anymore," and quit. You can say, "I hate this, life stinks." Or you can look at it from another angle and say, "This stinks, something is wrong here. If we can figure it out maybe we can get over this and be better than ever." Each scenario is correct depending on your perception. Your perception will have something to do with how this scenario plays out.

If you quit, it doesn't matter what happens there, because you'll be gone. If you say "life stinks," you only add to the sour atmosphere. If you lovingly look for a solution, maybe you can help turn things around. If you can't improve the situation and it really is better to quit then you have learned some valuable lessons that may help you down the road.

Your perception affects the results of any situation. That means your perception controls reality from any point of view. How you perceive anything is up to you. Choose to look for the positives in every situation. You will start to see possibilities to for improving the situation. The negatives may diminish because you will be focusing improving things instead of worrying about all the catastrophes that probably will never happen.

February is a great time to open your focus to a loving attitude. Taking a loving approach to your life brings more acceptance for people and situations for what they are. And even if it is not the utopia you dream about, your loving acceptance takes much of the stress away. Use the love focus of Valentine's Day to look at your life through loving eyes. Accept what isn't and be grateful for what is. Open your heart and let others see your loving acceptance and create a more utopian reality to live.